Friday, January 11, 2013

Find Strength in your Sisters


Beta Eta has a line in our chapter hymn that says, “Here I find my strength.” Furthermore, while circled up, we grip each others’ hands just that much tighter when we sing “strength.” This single line sums up one of the greatest things Tau Beta Sigma (and Kappa Kappa Psi for brothers) allows us: strength, or many opportunities to discover our true strength. These opportunities include but are not limited to leadership opportunities and our sisters.
When you join TBS, you do not know what will come of it. You have a limited understanding of the fantastic organization you have just been initiated into and must greatly rely on your “Fortitude and courage to see an ideal, to seize upon it, and follow it wherever it will lead you in Tau Beta Sigma,” and I hope you will. No matter how shy or unsure you start off, active involvement will strengthen your assurance within your chapter and it can only go up from there!  Talk to your sisters and previous officers about their projects and volunteer to help to gain a better understanding. Then, dare to take the helm, step out of your comfort zone, and run for an office! The sky’s the limit! If you had asked me two and a half years ago where TBS would take me, I am not sure I would have had visions beyond my chapter.
However, TBS is equally a wonderful support system for non-sorority matters. Whatever is going on in your life, your sisters and the sorority are available as needed. In 2012, I have had my fair share of emotional struggles and used the opportunities presented in TBS to focus my energy. In the spring, my ups and downs were balanced by focus on the success of the Northeast District Convention and my office as Corresponding Secretary. My short-term and long-term projects and their success built my confidence and strength in all areas of my life, including personal and academic. It was amazing how small victories along the districts planning process (example: making the room reservations work with the Air Force Band Concert) could empower me to have academic and emotional excellence. On the other hand, if busying up does not work for you, your sisters are good for a listening ear, lend a hand to share your load, or just providing support so that you, too, may strengthen and achieve anything!
                As sisters, we often cite the iconic final line of the Affirmation “With my sisters, I am best” to express our feelings towards the Sisterhood and its members. In my experiences, this feeling can be attributed to the emotional, physical, and academic strength our sisters provide us which lift us to our utmost potential! Take advantage of the wonderful people and opportunities you have been given in which to find strength! I wish you all the best on your individual journey!

(Left to right) Sara Johnson, Patricia Da Silva, Zara Simpson, Nadine Simpson, Anna Costello singing at with the sisters at the 2012 Northeast District Convention.

Beta Eta dressed up at their 2012 Marching Band Banquet.
MLITB,
Zara Simpson
Tau Beta Sigma – Beta Eta

University of Maryland
NED Secretary